People can get away with tricking others to engage in sex by completely fabricating everything about themselves and in most places, there are no repercussions for this kind of lying.
One New Jersey lawmaker’s effort to outlaw that behavior petered out after a single try, with legislation that languished in committee and was not re-introduced in subsequent legislative sessions but there are numerous cases across the country where this is a real problem.
A California man persuaded at least seven women over a three year span to pay him for sex to “cure” non-existent diseases before he was with obtaining sex by fraud in connection with the case of a 23-year-old Orange County woman, after a new law was enacted following his successful appeal of a conviction for an earlier sex crime spree.
In 2008, it was reported that a Massachusetts woman, Marissa Lee-Fuentes, unknowingly had sex with her boyfriend’s brother in the dark basement that she was sleeping in. He could not be prosecuted because Massachusetts law requires that rape include the use of force.
Sheriff Peter J. Koutoujian crafted rape-by-fraud legislation in response, when he was a Massachusetts State House Representative, however it did not pass because legislators found the law to be too broad.
Victims have also emerged in New Jersey, including some who were brave enough to come forward.
The idea of a man luring a woman to bed with tales of his riches, fast cars and a vacation home in Monaco, while he actually lives in his mother’s basement, or a seemingly wealthy widow convincing a younger man to sleep thinking they could marry and he’ll inherit her money, when in reality, she’s broke, was too much for one New Jersey lawmaker.
State Senator Troy Singleton (D-Burlington) was in the General Assembly when he introduced the bill (A3908), which would have created the crime of “sexual assault by fraud.” the proposal was stuck in committee and the legislator did not introduce in a subsequent legislative session.
Singleton wanted to make it illegal for someone to lie about his or her status in order to have sex with someone else. Under a bill proposed by a south Jersey lawmaker, such actions would not only be considered dishonest but could prompt charges of rape.
Singleton wanted to define the crime as “an act of sexual penetration to which a person has given consent because the actor has misrepresented the purpose of the act or has represented he is someone he is not.”
Singleton decided to introduce the legislation after talking to Florence resident Mischele Lewis, who had been duped into paying $5,000 to her boyfriend, Cherry Hill resident William Allen Jordan, for what he claimed was a security clearance.
Jordan said he was a British military official, but it turned out he was a serial bigamist and scam artist who pleaded guilty to defrauding Lewis on Nov. 10.
Prosecutors had initially tried to charge Jordan with sexual assault by coercion, but a grand jury refused to indict him on that charge.
“I truly believe that we have to look at the issue of rape as more than sexual contact without consent,” Singleton said. “Fraud invalidates any semblance of consent just as forcible sexual contact does. This legislation is designed to provide our state’s judiciary with another tool to assess situations where this occurs and potentially provide a legal remedy to those circumstances.”
As proposed, the bill doesn’t consider sexual assault by fraud any less serious than other types of sexual assault that are already on the books. It would have been a first degree or second degree crime depending on “the circumstances surrounding the act,” punishable with 10 to 20 years in prison in the former and 5 to 10 years in prison in the latter.
“The punishment aspect, that part we didn’t touch. The prosecutors and the judges and the jurors would be able to use discretion,” Singleton said.
Singleton said that he was open to refining the bill so it’s not abused but he seems to have lost interest after scoring a number of headlines and the bill languished in committee.
“It’s my intention, as the bill is moved through the amendment process, to ensure that while we allow for judicial discretion we don’t want unintended consequences,” he said.
The issue of “rape-by-fraud” is the subject of a book by New York City resident Joyce M. Short, who said she married a man who lied about his age, marital status, education and military service, among other things.
Short, who has met with Lewis, said, “(Jordan) hadn’t threatened her. Quite the contrary. He had seduced her. But he had seduced her through a hoax, through a fraudulent means. And just like Bernie Madoff is in prison because he stole money from people by defrauding them, someone can vitiate your knowing consent by defrauding you in order to have sex.”
Short said that one of the main objections people have to the idea of sexual assault by fraud is equating it with violent sexual assault.
“My response to that is there are many ways to sexually assault a person. Violence is one of them. And there are no words that can come to relating the horrible violation of a person when that happens to them,” Short said. “But we should not look asunder. We should not simply cast away the concept that people are defrauded of sex.”
According to a memo by the Office of Legislative Services written at Singleton’s request, at least five states — Tennessee, Alabama, California, Colorado and Montana — have some sort of crime for sex by fraud. In Alabama, it’s a lesser offense than rape.
Alan Zegas — a prominent New Jersey criminal defense attorney who has represented many defendants accused of sexual assault — said the Singleton’s bill is far too broad and probably would not survive a constitutional challenge.
“What if a man were to say to a woman ‘I love you’ and engage in sex and he really didn’t love her? It could be as simple as that,” Zegas said. “The definition is so broad that it doesn’t put the citizens of the state on fair notice of what it is that constitutes the crime.”
Yale Law Professor Jed Rubenfeld in a 2013 article for the Yale Law Journal said that “’Rape-by-deception’ is almost universally rejected in American criminal law,” but that it shouldn’t be because “courts have held for a hundred years in virtually every area of the law outside of rape, a consent procured through deception is no consent at all.”
Rubenfeld said that in many states that do have statutes on rape by fraud, it’s only if the perpetrator impersonates the victim’s spouse or dupes the victim into having sex for medical reasons. But Rubenfeld said that’s because the case law is based on an outdated definition of rape that wasn’t really about the victim’s consent, but about her virtue.
“Rape law’s exclusion of almost all sex-by-deception claims followed from the fact that in such cases the woman had willingly had non-marital sex. Though deceived, she had willingly surrendered her virtue and thus could not claim rape,’” Rubenfeld wrote.